搞砸了只會一直說 I’m sorry?英文道歉分三級,主管最想聽的是這句

搞砸了別只說 I'm sorry!英文道歉分三級+補救句一次學會 | MJ英語 Daily English | 生活英語

你把舊版報價單寄給了客戶,主管走過來問怎麼回事。你一緊張,只會一直說 “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m really sorry…”——主管點點頭,卻還是不知道接下來怎麼辦。

英文道歉要看嚴重程度,而且一定要接補救:小事說 My bad.;工作失誤說 That’s on me./I dropped the ball.;正式場合說 I apologize for…。最後補一句 I’ll send the corrected version by noon.,主管要的是這句。

💡 先搞懂:為什麼一直說 sorry 反而不加分

台灣人道歉習慣「多說幾次比較有誠意」,但在英文職場,連說三次 I’m sorry 聽起來像慌了,而且主管最想知道的「現在怎麼辦」還沒講。英文道歉有兩個重點:第一,用詞要配嚴重程度——打錯字、晚兩分鐘說 My bad 就好;漏寄檔案、忘了跟進這種工作失誤,說 That’s on me(這是我的責任)或 I dropped the ball on that(這件事我漏掉了);面對客戶或影響很大的事,才用正式的 I apologize for…。第二,道歉完一定接補救:I’ll fix it right now.、I’ll send the updated file by noon.。先認錯、再給方案,原因留到最後、而且一句就好。

台灣人最容易卡的雷:① 連說 I’m sorry, I’m sorry…(像在慌)→ That’s on me. I’ll fix it right now.;② Sorry for my mistake.(直翻偏怪)→ Sorry about that./That was my mistake.;③ 一開口先找藉口 Because the system… → 先認錯再說原因


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場景:週二早上,Amy 剛發現寄給客戶的報價單用了舊版數字;主管 Kevin 拿著手機走過來,客戶已經回信問了。


Kevin

Amy, got a sec? The client’s asking why the prices in your quote don’t match.

Amy,有空嗎?客戶在問妳報價單上的價格怎麼對不上。

Amy

Oh no. I’m sorry, I’m so sorry, I’m really sorry.

喔不。對不起,真的很對不起,非常抱歉。(連說三次 sorry,聽起來慌了,也沒講要怎麼處理)

Kevin

Hey, it’s okay. Take a breath. What happened?

嘿,沒關係。先深呼吸。發生什麼事?

Amy

Okay. That’s on me. I used last month’s price sheet by mistake.

好。這是我的責任。我不小心用了上個月的價目表。

Kevin

Got it. These things happen. Can we fix it today?

了解。這種事難免。今天能修正嗎?

Amy

Yes. I’ll send the corrected quote by noon and copy you on it.

可以。我中午前寄出修正版報價單,也會 cc 給你。

Kevin

Perfect. Should we say anything to the client?

很好。要跟客戶說些什麼嗎?

Amy

I’ll write to them directly. Something like, I apologize for the confusion, please see the updated version attached.

我直接寫信給他們。大概是:造成困擾很抱歉,請參考附件的更新版本。

Kevin

That works. And honestly, you handled that well. Way better than the three sorries.

可以。老實說,妳處理得很好。比剛剛那三個 sorry 好多了。

Amy

Ha, my bad. Old habit. It won’t happen again.

哈,我的錯,老習慣了。不會再發生了。

🎯 30 秒快速複習

英文道歉看嚴重程度:小事=My bad;工作失誤=That’s on me/I dropped the ball;正式或對客戶=I apologize for…。道歉後一定接補救(I’ll fix it right now/I’ll send it by noon),原因放最後、一句就好。別連說三次 sorry。

①小事=My bad.
②工作失誤=That’s on me.
③漏掉了=I dropped the ball.
④正式=I apologize for…
⑤接補救=I’ll fix it right now.
⑥給時間=by noon / by end of day
⑦保證=It won’t happen again.
⑧別連說 I’m sorry ×3

下次這樣說 Next Time

道歉最常踩的三個雷,換成這樣說主管反而安心。

① 發現自己出錯

❌ 中文腦會說

I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m really sorry.

多說幾次比較有誠意?

✅ 該這樣說

That’s on me. I’ll fix it right now.

認錯+補救,一次講完

為什麼:英文職場連說三次 sorry 聽起來像慌了;對方要的是「你負責」和「接下來怎麼辦」,這兩句一講就到位。

② 說「抱歉我的錯誤」

❌ 中文腦會說

Sorry for my mistake.

照中文直翻

✅ 該這樣說

Sorry about that. That was my mistake.

拆成兩句才自然

為什麼:Sorry for my mistake 文法沒錯但聽起來生硬;母語者常說 Sorry about that,認錯另外用 That was my mistake。

③ 解釋原因

❌ 中文腦會說

Because the system was slow, so…

一開口先講原因

✅ 該這樣說

That’s on me. The system was slow, but I should’ve double-checked.

先認錯、再講原因

為什麼:先講原因聽起來像在找藉口;先承擔、再補一句原因,對方才會覺得你在負責。


重點單字 Vocabulary Boost

my bad/maɪ bæd/

我的錯(口語,小事用)。

Oops, my bad.(喔,我的錯。)

drop the ball/drɑːp ðə bɔːl/

(工作上)漏掉、搞砸。

I dropped the ball on that email.(那封信我漏掉了。)

apologize/əˈpɑːlədʒaɪz/ v.

(正式)道歉。

I apologize for the confusion.(造成困擾很抱歉。)

by mistake/baɪ mɪˈsteɪk/

不小心、弄錯了。

I sent the old file by mistake.(我不小心寄了舊檔。)

corrected/kəˈrektɪd/ adj.

修正過的。

Here’s the corrected version.(這是修正版。)

copy someone on/ˈkɑːpi ˈsʌmwʌn ɑːn/

(email)把某人加進副本(cc)。

I’ll copy you on it.(我會 cc 給你。)

confusion/kənˈfjuːʒn/ n.

混亂、困擾。

Sorry for the confusion.(抱歉造成混亂。)

old habit/oʊld ˈhæbɪt/ n.

老習慣。

Sorry, old habit.(抱歉,老習慣。)


重點句型 Sentence Patterns

1. 小事 → My bad. / Oops, my mistake.

打錯字、晚兩分鐘、叫錯名字,輕輕帶過就好。

例:Oops, my bad.(喔,我的錯。)
例:My mistake, wrong file.(我弄錯了,檔案拿錯了。)
例:Sorry about that.(抱歉。)
My bad 很口語,對客戶或嚴重的事情不要用,會顯得不夠重視。

2. 工作失誤 → That’s on me. / I dropped the ball.

承擔責任的說法,口語和職場都能用。

例:That’s on me.(這是我的責任。)
例:I dropped the ball on the follow-up.(後續跟進我漏掉了。)
例:I should’ve double-checked.(我應該再確認一次的。)
I should’ve… 用在自己身上是負責任的反省,跟 You should have 責怪別人完全不同。

3. 正式場合 → I apologize for + 名詞

對客戶、對外信件、影響很大時用。

例:I apologize for the confusion.(造成困擾很抱歉。)
例:I apologize for the delay.(抱歉延誤了。)
例:Please accept our apologies.(請接受我們的歉意。)
apologize for 後面接名詞或動名詞:for the delay/for sending the wrong file。

4. 接補救 → I’ll + 動作 + by + 時間

道歉的重點其實在這句,講清楚做什麼、什麼時候。

例:I’ll fix it right now.(我現在馬上修。)
例:I’ll send the corrected quote by noon.(我中午前寄修正版報價。)
例:I’ll copy you on the email.(我寄信時會 cc 給你。)
沒辦法馬上修好時,說 I’m on it(我在處理了)也能讓對方安心。

5. 收尾保證 → It won’t happen again.

最後一句給對方信心,但只在你做得到時才說。

例:It won’t happen again.(不會再發生了。)
例:I’ve set a reminder so I don’t miss it next time.(我設了提醒,下次不會漏。)
例:Thanks for being understanding.(謝謝你的體諒。)
說出具體改善做法(設提醒、多一道確認)比一句保證更有說服力。

逐字稿 Transcript

J
Three sorries, zero solutions. That’s the whole story of Amy’s Tuesday morning. I’m Jason, and today we’re talking about how to apologize in English when you mess up at the office.三個 sorry,零個解決方案。這就是 Amy 週二早上的故事。我是 Jason,今天要聊的是,在辦公室搞砸的時候,英文到底該怎麼道歉。
M
And I’m Mary. Three sorries, zero solutions, I love that. When we mess up, a lot of us say “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m really sorry.” In Chinese, that feels sincere. In English, it sounds a little flustered.我是 Mary。三個 sorry、零個解決方案,這個說法我超愛。我們搞砸的時候,很多人會說 “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m really sorry.”。中文聽起來很有誠意,但英文聽起來有點慌張。
J
Right. Say Amy sent a client the old price sheet. Her manager, Kevin, walks over and says the client is asking why the prices don’t match. And Amy says, “I’m sorry, I’m so sorry, I’m really sorry.”對。假設 Amy 把舊的價目表寄給了客戶。她的主管 Kevin 走過來說,客戶在問為什麼價格對不上。結果 Amy 說:”I’m sorry, I’m so sorry, I’m really sorry.”
M
Poor Amy. Kevin nods, but he still has no idea what happens next. Is it fixed? Is the client angry? All he hears is panic. That’s the real problem with saying sorry again and again.可憐的 Amy。Kevin 點點頭,但他還是不知道接下來會怎樣。問題解決了嗎?客戶生氣了嗎?他只聽到慌張。這就是一直說 sorry 的真正問題。
J
So here’s the first idea. Match your apology to the size of the mistake. Small stuff first, like a typo, or you’re two minutes late. You can just say “My bad.” or “Oops, my mistake.” or “Sorry about that.”所以第一個重點:道歉要配合錯誤的大小。先說小事,像是打錯字,或是晚了兩分鐘。你可以直接說 “My bad.”(我的錯)、”Oops, my mistake.”,或 “Sorry about that.”(抱歉啦)。
M
One warning about “My bad,” though. It’s very casual. It’s fine with a teammate across the desk. But with a client, or when something serious happened, it sounds like you don’t care enough.不過 “My bad” 要小心。它非常口語。跟坐在對面的同事說沒問題,但如果對客戶,或是事情很嚴重,聽起來會像你不夠重視。
J
Good point. Now the middle level, real work mistakes. You missed an email, or forgot to follow up. Here you say “That’s on me.” It means this is my responsibility. Simple, and strong.沒錯。再來是中間這一級,真正的工作失誤。你漏回了一封信,或是忘了跟進。這時候就說 “That’s on me.”(這是我的責任)。簡單又有力。
M
Another good one is “I dropped the ball on the follow-up.” To drop the ball means you missed something you were supposed to handle. And you can add “I should’ve double-checked.”另一句也很好用:”I dropped the ball on the follow-up.”(後續跟進我漏掉了)。drop the ball 就是你該處理的事情被你漏掉了。你還可以加一句 “I should’ve double-checked.”(我應該再確認一次的)。
J
And notice that “I should’ve” is about yourself. That’s you taking responsibility. It’s the opposite of “You should have” aimed at someone else. We did a whole episode on that, so go check it out.注意喔,這裡的 “I should’ve” 是說自己,是你在扛責任。跟對別人說的 “You should have” 完全相反。我們有整集在講這個,可以去聽聽看。
M
Yes, totally different feeling. Okay, level three is formal. Clients, big impact. Then we say “I apologize for the confusion.” or “I apologize for the delay.” Or in a company email, “Please accept our apologies.”對,感覺完全不同。好,第三級是正式場合,像是客戶、影響很大的事。這時候我們說 “I apologize for the confusion.”(造成困擾很抱歉)或 “I apologize for the delay.”(抱歉延誤了)。公司信件裡也可以寫 “Please accept our apologies.”(請接受我們的歉意)。
J
Small tip. After “apologize for,” use a noun, like “the delay,” or an ing word, like “sending the wrong file.” So that’s half the job, picking the right level. The second half matters even more.小提醒:apologize for 後面接名詞,像 “the delay”,或接動名詞,像 “sending the wrong file”。挑對等級只是一半,另一半其實更重要。
M
Always follow the apology with the fix. Say what you’ll do, and when. “I’ll fix it right now.” Or “I’ll send the corrected quote by noon.” Or “I’ll copy you on the email.”道歉之後一定要接補救。說清楚你要做什麼、什麼時候做。”I’ll fix it right now.”(我現在馬上修)。或 “I’ll send the corrected quote by noon.”(我中午前寄修正版報價單)。或 “I’ll copy you on the email.”(我寄信時會 cc 給你)。
J
Copy you on the email means you put that person in cc, so they see it too. Great for managers. And if you can’t fix it right away, say “I’m on it.” That alone makes people relax.copy you on the email 就是把對方放進副本,讓他也看得到。對主管特別好用。如果沒辦法馬上修好,就說 “I’m on it.”(我在處理了)。光這一句就能讓人放心。
M
That’s what Kevin really wants. In our story, Kevin says, “Take a breath. What happened?” And Amy finally says, “That’s on me. I used last month’s price sheet by mistake.”這才是 Kevin 真正想聽的。故事裡 Kevin 說:”Take a breath. What happened?”(先深呼吸,發生什麼事?)然後 Amy 終於說:”That’s on me. I used last month’s price sheet by mistake.”(這是我的責任,我不小心用了上個月的價目表。)
J
Nice order there. She owns it first, then gives a short reason. By mistake just means you did it without meaning to. Then comes the fix: “I’ll send the corrected quote by noon and copy you on it.”順序很漂亮。她先認錯,再給一句簡短的原因。by mistake 就是不是故意、不小心的。然後是補救:”I’ll send the corrected quote by noon and copy you on it.”
M
Corrected just means fixed, the right version. And then she writes to the client, “I apologize for the confusion, please see the updated version attached.” Short, formal, and calm.corrected 就是改正過、正確的版本。接著她寫信給客戶:”I apologize for the confusion, please see the updated version attached.”(造成困擾很抱歉,請見附件更新版。)簡短、正式,又冷靜。
J
Right. So the order is: own it, give the fix, and keep the reason to one short line at the end. Reason last, never first. Which brings us to the three traps.對。所以順序就是:先認錯,再給補救,原因留到最後、一句話就好。原因放最後,絕對不要放最前面。接下來就是三個常見的雷。
M
Trap one is the one we started with. Three sorries in a row. Try “That’s on me. I’ll fix it right now.” Same feeling, but now there’s a plan.第一個雷就是我們一開始說的,連說三次 sorry。改成 “That’s on me. I’ll fix it right now.”,一樣有誠意,但現在多了一個方案。
J
Trap two is “Sorry for my mistake.” It comes straight from Chinese, and it sounds stiff. Native speakers say “Sorry about that. That was my mistake.” Two short sentences, and much more natural.第二個雷是 “Sorry for my mistake.”。它是中文直翻過來的,聽起來很生硬。母語者會說 “Sorry about that. That was my mistake.”,兩個短句,自然多了。
M
Trap three is starting with the excuse. “Because the system was slow…” Your manager hears someone dodging. Instead say, “That’s on me. The system was slow, but I should’ve double-checked.”第三個雷是一開口就找藉口,”Because the system was slow…”。主管聽起來會覺得你在閃躲。改成 “That’s on me. The system was slow, but I should’ve double-checked.”(這是我的責任,系統是慢,但我應該再確認的。)
J
One last piece is the ending. You can add some reassurance, but only if you can keep it. “It won’t happen again.” Even better, something real, like “I’ve set a reminder so I don’t miss it next time.”最後一塊是收尾。你可以補一句讓人放心的話,但前提是你做得到。”It won’t happen again.”(不會再發生了。)更好的是說具體的做法,像 “I’ve set a reminder so I don’t miss it next time.”(我設了提醒,下次不會漏。)
M
And “Thanks for being understanding” is a lovely way to close with a manager or a client. Warm, not dramatic. At the end of our story, Kevin tells Amy she handled it way better than the three sorries.“Thanks for being understanding.”(謝謝你的體諒。)也很適合拿來跟主管或客戶收尾,溫暖但不浮誇。故事最後,Kevin 跟 Amy 說她處理得比那三個 sorry 好太多了。
J
And Amy laughs, “Ha, my bad. Old habit. It won’t happen again.” Old habit is a nice phrase for little things we keep doing. And “my bad” works here because it’s a light, friendly moment with Kevin, not an email to the client.Amy 笑著說:”Ha, my bad. Old habit. It won’t happen again.”(哈,我的錯,老習慣了,不會再發生了。)old habit 很適合形容那些我們一直改不掉的小毛病。而且這裡用 “my bad” 剛好,因為這是跟 Kevin 之間輕鬆的小插曲,不是寫給客戶的信。
M
A perfect example of matching the level. Quick recap. Level one, “My bad.” Level two, “That’s on me” or “I dropped the ball.” Level three, “I apologize for.” And then, always, the fix.剛好是配合等級的完美示範。快速複習:第一級 “My bad.”;第二級 “That’s on me” 或 “I dropped the ball.”;第三級 “I apologize for.”。然後,永遠都要接補救。
J
Now listen to the whole conversation again. Watch how Amy goes from panic to plan, and see if you can catch each level as it comes up.現在再聽一次完整對話。看看 Amy 怎麼從慌張變成有方案,也試試看能不能聽出每一個等級。
M
And pay attention to what comes right after each apology. That’s the part that makes you sound calm. Here we go.也注意每次道歉後面緊接著什麼。那一句就是讓你聽起來冷靜的關鍵。開始囉。
🔁 [DIALOGUE REPLAY] 重播情境對話
J
So remember: own it, fix it, keep the reason short. One clear apology plus one clear fix beats three sorries every time.記住:先認錯、再補救、原因講短一點。一句清楚的道歉加一句清楚的補救,每次都勝過三個 sorry。
M
Tell us in the comments: what’s your most memorable mess-up at work? Share what happened, and we’ll help you find the perfect English apology for it.留言告訴我們:你在工作上最難忘的一次搞砸是什麼?說說發生了什麼事,我們幫你配一句最適合的英文道歉。
J
It won’t happen again, unless you miss the next episode.不會再發生了,除非你錯過下一集。
M
Own it, fix it, move on. That’s MJ English!認錯、補救、往前走。這裡是 MJ英語!

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